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Personalized matchmaking · By application only

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Start choosing.

TovLov is private matchmaking for people who already know what they want. A human team gets to know you in depth, filters for values and life vision, and introduces you only to people truly worth your time.

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100% confidential process/1:1 interview/Limited spots each cycle
Intention✦human judgment✦Values✦total discretion✦Quality over quantity✦relationships with purpose✦ Intention✦human judgment✦Values✦total discretion✦Quality over quantity✦relationships with purpose✦
( 01 ) — Manifesto

They gave you endless options. No one helped you choose. We introduce you to the right person.

People, not profiles

No photos and ten-word bios. We get to know you in a real conversation: your story, your pace, your non-negotiables.

Deep compatibility

Chemistry is felt; compatibility is assessed. We match values, lifestyle and relationship vision before we introduce you to anyone.

Absolute discretion

No public profiles, no exposure. Only your matchmaking team sees your information, and it’s only shared with your permission.

( 03 ) — The method

Four steps.
Zero improvisation.

A human, structured and confidential process. Every stage exists so you walk into each date with clarity, not doubt.

01You apply

Private application

You fill out a short application. We review each one by hand to protect the quality of the whole community.

Initial screening · Confidential
02We get to know you

1:1 interview

An in-depth conversation with your matchmaker: values, lifestyle, history and what you’re truly looking for.

No rush · No judgment
03We define

Relationship profile

We build your compatibility map and define, together, the criteria that matter. Clarity before moving forward.

Beyond shared tastes
04You connect

Curated introductions

We introduce you to hand-picked people, with context. Before, during and after every date, your matchmaker is by your side.

Fewer dates · Better decisions
( 04 ) — Why TovLov

An algorithm shows you who’s nearby. We show you who’s right for you.

Meeting people was never the problem. The problem is spending months on connections that had no direction from the start. TovLov puts human judgment where there used to be chance.

“This isn’t about choosing fast. It’s about choosing better.”
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Human, guided process✕
1:1 interview✕
Values-based compatibility✕
Intention from day one✕
Hand-curated introductions✕
Intentional events and trips✕
Zero public profiles✕
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Clarity · Judgment · Precision

Fewer dates.
Better decisions.
One right person.

( 05 ) — Matchmaking memberships

One method. Three levels of support.

Everyone arrives at a different moment. Choose the level that fits where you are; they all start with a private application.

Preparation

Essence

$2,500MXN / month

The starting point of a conscious choice. For those who want clarity before they start connecting.

  • Private application and initial screening
  • 1:1 interview: context and goals
  • Assessment of your relationship profile
  • Defining your connection criteria
  • Guidance to connect consciously
  • Access to resources and a private community
Explore Essence
Most chosen
Guided connection

Alignment

$4,500MXN / month

Where clarity meets connection. For those ready to connect with a matchmaker on their side.

  • Everything in Essence
  • Personalized human matchmaking
  • Compatibility by values and lifestyle
  • Curated introductions and experiences
  • Support throughout the entire process
  • Fewer dates, better decisions
Explore Alignment
Private concierge

Signature

$8,000MXN / month

Where love becomes a life project. The highest level of attention, priority and discretion.

  • Everything in Alignment
  • Priority service and dedicated attention
  • Highly personalized connections
  • Maximum discretion and confidentiality
  • Ongoing, close support
  • Experiences tailored to you
Explore Signature
Confidential process/Application required/Limited spots
( 06 ) — TovLov experiences

Where connection stops being a coincidence.

Private dinners, intimate events and trips with hand-selected groups. The right setting changes everything.

A toast at a private TovLov dinner
Private dinnersEvents
TovLov travel group on the beach
BeachTrips
TovLov gala in a classic ballroom
GalaEvents
TovLov group on a hike
AdventureTrips
TovLov party
CelebrationEvents
Sunset with the TovLov travel group
SunsetTrips
Coming soon · TovLov app

Your matchmaker, now in your pocket.

The TovLov app doesn’t replace human judgment: it carries it with you. Follow your process, receive your introductions and talk to your team, all in a private space designed for choosing better.

Curated introductionsEvery person arrives with context and the reason behind the recommendation.
A direct line to your matchmakerBook sessions and get answers without leaving the app.
Club, events and tripsYour priority access to the community, in one place.
Private by designNo public profiles, no swiping, no exposure.
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Your introduction this week
Hi, Ana.
Revealed in your session
Daniel, 36
Chosen by your matchmaker for values, pace of life and vision of family.
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( 07 ) — In their words

They stopped improvising love.

Real first names, last names withheld. Discretion applies here too.

I was burned out on apps and hesitated a lot before applying. The TovLov process was completely different from anything I’d experienced: human, deep and deeply respectful. I didn’t feel pressure, I felt supported. Today I choose so much better.
AAndrea, 34Matchmaking
TovLov doesn’t try to sell you love. It helps you understand yourself first, then connect from a more conscious place. For me, that alone changed everything.
SSofía, 38Matchmaking
It’s not a quick fix. It’s a process for people who are done improvising love.
CCarlos, 41Matchmaking
I started with the courses because I was too shy to apply for matchmaking straight away. After working on myself, I felt ready for the process. It was a natural path, no pressure, and beautifully supported.
MMariana, 36Courses → Matchmaking
What I loved most was that I never felt judged. I could start where I was, without feeling I had to rush or fit in.
DDiego, 39Community
I was burned out on apps and hesitated a lot before applying. The TovLov process was completely different from anything I’d experienced: human, deep and deeply respectful. I didn’t feel pressure, I felt supported. Today I choose so much better.
AAndrea, 34Matchmaking
TovLov doesn’t try to sell you love. It helps you understand yourself first, then connect from a more conscious place. For me, that alone changed everything.
SSofía, 38Matchmaking
It’s not a quick fix. It’s a process for people who are done improvising love.
CCarlos, 41Matchmaking
I started with the courses because I was too shy to apply for matchmaking straight away. After working on myself, I felt ready for the process. It was a natural path, no pressure, and beautifully supported.
MMariana, 36Courses → Matchmaking
What I loved most was that I never felt judged. I could start where I was, without feeling I had to rush or fit in.
DDiego, 39Community
I always thought something was wrong with me because nothing worked. The process helped me see it wasn’t that. I was choosing from the wrong place.
FFernanda, 40Matchmaking
I wasn’t ready to look for a partner, but I was ready to understand myself better. The courses helped me see patterns I’d been repeating for years.
VValeria, 45Courses
I liked that they don’t push you to find someone fast. They walk you through uncomfortable but necessary questions. That alone is a huge shift from the apps.
RRodrigo, 37Matchmaking
Starting with the courses was a safe, very honest first step.
PPaulina, 33Courses
I always thought something was wrong with me because nothing worked. The process helped me see it wasn’t that. I was choosing from the wrong place.
FFernanda, 40Matchmaking
I wasn’t ready to look for a partner, but I was ready to understand myself better. The courses helped me see patterns I’d been repeating for years.
VValeria, 45Courses
I liked that they don’t push you to find someone fast. They walk you through uncomfortable but necessary questions. That alone is a huge shift from the apps.
RRodrigo, 37Matchmaking
Starting with the courses was a safe, very honest first step.
PPaulina, 33Courses
TovLov doesn’t try to sell you love. It helps you understand yourself first and then connect from a more conscious place.
Sofía, 38 · TovLov member
( 09 ) — Before you apply

What everyone asks first.

Have another question? Your 1:1 interview is the place to ask it, no strings attached.

How is TovLov different from a dating app?

It comes down to who decides. On a dating app, an algorithm shows you whoever is nearby; at TovLov, a human team gets to know you in an interview and introduces you only to people compatible in values, lifestyle and relationship vision. Our app is a tool for living that process, not a catalog of profiles to swipe through.

Do you accept everyone who applies?

No. Every application is reviewed individually. We look for people with a real intention to build a relationship and the willingness to commit to a serious process. That protects the quality of every introduction, including yours.

What is the selection process like?

You apply online, we review your application and, if there’s a fit with our method, we schedule a 1:1 interview with your matchmaker. From there we build your relationship profile and define your connection criteria together.

How confidential is the process?

Completely. There are no public profiles. Only your matchmaking team knows your information, and it’s never shared with anyone without your explicit permission.

Do you guarantee I’ll find a partner?

No honest service can guarantee love. What we do guarantee is a serious, human and personalized process that raises the quality of every connection and helps you decide with clarity.

What’s the difference between the Club and matchmaking?

The Club is a private community where you meet and talk with other intentional singles, at your own pace. Matchmaking is a 1:1 service: a matchmaker interviews you and introduces you to people selected for you. Many members start in the Club and later take the step into matchmaking.

When is the TovLov app launching?

Very soon. Active members and people on the waitlist get access first. Apply today and we’ll let you know the moment it’s live.

Applications open · Limited spots

Your next relationship deserves a process, not a swipe.

Leave us your details. If there’s a fit with our method, we’ll reach out to schedule your 1:1 interview.

Private process · Your information is never made public
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