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Data, science and judgment to choose better.
We dig into official sources —INEGI, the WHO, Harvard, PNAS— and turn them into real decisions about love. No myths, no magic formulas.
15 articlesMexico data · World · Dating · Relationships · WellbeingBy the TovLov Team
How many singles are there in Mexico? The real numbers.Nearly 30 million Mexicans are single, and once you add people who are separated, divorced or widowed, almost half of all adults aren’t living with a partner. Here’s what the official data says, and what it means for you.Read article
Single at every age: each decade tells a different story.Being single at 24 isn’t the same as being single at 38 or 62. INEGI data reveals three very different stages, and a gender gap that widens with the years.Read article 
At what age do Mexicans get married?In just ten years, the average age at marriage rose by four years. We’re marrying less, later and with more clarity. Here’s the latest data from INEGI.Read article 
Singlehood around the world: a global trend.What’s happening in Mexico isn’t an isolated phenomenon. From Tokyo to Madrid, millions of people are marrying later, living alone or simply not finding the right person. Here’s the data, and the lessons for us.Read article 
Tired of swiping? It’s not you, it’s the model.Apps have become the most common way to meet a partner, and at the same time the most exhausting. Here’s the data behind “swipe fatigue,” and what’s actually working.Read article 
Loneliness is also a health issue.Being single isn’t the same as being lonely. But a lack of connection does have real consequences for body and mind. Here’s what the science says.Read article 
Where to meet singles who actually want something real.There are almost 30 million singles in Mexico. The challenge isn’t that they exist, it’s finding the ones who want the same thing you do. Here’s our honest guide to every option.Read article 
What is matchmaking? And why it’s making a comeback.For centuries, someone you trusted introduced two people worth introducing. Apps replaced them with an algorithm. Today, thousands of people tired of swiping are returning to what always worked: a human filter.Read article 
Attachment styles: why you’re drawn to who you’re drawn to.If you always end up with the same type of person, it’s not bad luck. Psychology has spent decades studying why we repeat patterns in love, and the good news is that they can change.Read article 
Green flags and red flags: what the science actually knows.The internet is full of “red flag” lists. Few of them are backed by evidence. Psychologist John Gottman’s research, built on decades of observing couples in the lab, is. Here’s what he found.Read article First date: the questions that bring you closer.“So, what do you do?” is the most common first-date question, and one of the least likely to bring you closer. Psychology has a much better alternative.Read article 
What actually makes a relationship work?For years we searched for the “perfect” person with a checklist of requirements. The latest science suggests we were looking in the wrong place.Read article After divorce: starting over, not from zero.Every year, hundreds of thousands of Mexicans close a chapter. Opening up to love again is scary, but it can also be the stage in which you choose best. Here’s what the data and experience say.Read article 
Love after 50: the best time to choose.Love doesn’t have an expiration date. More and more people are living the freest, most conscious chapter of their love lives after 50. Here’s the data, and the keys.Read article Independent women and love: more options, more discernment.They marry later, study longer and decide more freely than any generation before them. INEGI’s data tells the story of a deep shift in how Mexican women choose a partner.Read article